1. Each time you textual content him, it ends in tears. Or stress. Or anger. Or disappointment. There’s no sense in going out of your method to discuss to somebody who isn’t rising to your expectations, who’s making you’re feeling worse about your self as a substitute of higher. As a substitute of texting him, you must take a minute to consider whether or not the proper model of him in your head is something like the actual life model of him. If he retains developing brief, then perhaps you must cease chasing him.
2. He by no means texts you again inside an inexpensive period of time. He most likely can’t reply his texts at work. And he most likely has a thriving, busy life outdoors of you. But when this isn’t the primary time he’s stored you ready for days, if his sudden disappearance isn’t a one-time factor, then there’s no level in double texting him. If he needed to speak to you, then he would discuss to you. If he isn’t treating you as one in all his priorities, then you definitely shouldn’t waste any extra of your time making an attempt to seize his consideration. Settle for his silence and transfer on.
three. He can by no means hold a dialog going. Even whenever you ship him full paragraphs, he sends you one-word solutions,. Or he sends you emojis instead of precise phrases. You’ve tried your hardest to get conversations going, however he kills them inside seconds. Some persons are simply dangerous texters, but when that’s not the case, do you actually wish to date somebody you could have bother speaking to? Do you actually wish to hold pursuing somebody who isn’t piquing your curiosity? Even when you find yourself deciding to ship him one other textual content, the convo isn’t going to final lengthy. You aren’t going to be taught way more about him.
four. The one factor he needs to speak about is intercourse. It doesn’t matter whether or not you begin the dialog out by speaking about work or your loved ones or your pets. By some means, he’ll discover a method to reroute the dialog to intercourse. He appears extra involved with hitting on you than really partaking in deep, significant conversations with you. All the compliments would possibly really feel flattering at first, but when he’s solely displaying curiosity in your physique, that’s most likely as a result of he needs to sleep with you, not date you.
5. He’s been posting freely on social media however hasn’t bothered to reply your newest texts. You shouldn’t need to beg for his consideration. If he has his telephone on him and hasn’t been answering you, it’s tempting to textual content him once more (or put up a cute selfie to get his consideration). However you shouldn’t exit of your method to get him to note you. You’ve gotten loads of different folks you may textual content. You’ve gotten loads of different boys you may pursue.
6. Texting him makes you sick. Not the nice sort of butterflies-in-your-stomach sick. The dangerous form the place you’re overthinking what to say as a result of you may’t be your self round him. It’s regular to be nervous round a crush, however there’s no level in chasing after him if you happen to’re by no means comfy with him.